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The Not So Secret Blueprint Of An Alpha

For those who want to know how to become an alpha. Being an alpha will make you more attractive, because an alpha has certain traits that are irresistible. Everyone has an alpha inside, but not every man has awaken the giant within.
An alpha has a certain state of mind, a confidence and calmness that will make them feel they are always in control. They posses great leadership qualities and other traits that would roll up under this category.
In this article I will tell you what these traits are and how you can become an alpha as well. Like I said, this could be you.

Observational Traits Of An Alpha 

  1. An alpha is comfortable. Solid confidence and doesn’t fear things that are not to be feared. Understanding of the consequences of actions, alpha understands that life starts fresh and that consequences compound. Alpha puts itself first because it needs to be first if it is going to take care of others.
  2. Is passionate.Someone who knows what living is and isn’t afraid to pursue dreams. A true alpha has ambition and goals, usually very big ones. Alpha doesn’t give up on dreams.
  3. Understands failure. Alpha doesn’t see failing as failing. For alpha, failing is progress and moving forward. Nothing can put an alpha down because he will always overcome the challenges in life.
  4. Never loses composure. An alpha doesn’t let emotions rule his behavior.
  5. Has high morals and values. Alpha doesn’t look down on other people and doesn’t have an arrogant attitude. A true alpha is a calm and calculated with very good self-control. Any semblance of out of control is done on purpose to win.
  6. A natural leader. People will always look at the alpha when a decision needs to be made. He needs to provide direction. HiPPo is an acroynm that signifies the Highest Paid Person in the room makes the decision.
  7. Is a challenge. You don’t choose an alpha male, an alpha male chooses you. Being needy is the last thing an alpha will portray. Needs can be met elsewhere. Opportunity cost and abundance mentality drive decisions as opposed to the scarcity framework.
  8. Doesn’t need to prove himself. An alpha male has very high self-esteem and doesn’t need the approval of others.
  9. Is optimistic. An alpha doesn’t see problems, only opportunities. People want to hang around them because they are so positive in life.
  10. Walks and talks slow. They never rush things, this includes talking and walking. They are always in control of the situation. Talking slow appears to be something that confident people do naturally, so does the alpha . Walking slow is possible because the time that is kept is set according to the alpha. Alpha is always on time.
So you see that I didn’t address any physical traits in this list. That’s because I believe that being an alpha is something that comes from within you. It’s your state of mind. These ten traits are for me the definition of an alpha .
Now let’s take a look at how you can become an alpha as well.

How Can I Become An Alpha ?

If you want to become alpha you have to work on yourself. By now you should have a picture of how an alpha acts like based on the traits above.
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Women naturally want alpha males. They are the type of men who will provide, protect and take care of what needs to be done. It’s not easy to become alpha because you have to change inside. You can’t fake being alpha, it’s something that you are. Everything is build upon a positive self-esteem. You can’t just walk over other guys and think you are alpha, it doesn’t work that way.
Most people picture the alpha male as a dominant, loud and verbal guy who puts the men around him down. Or you could just say: “the asshole”.
A true alpha doesn’t try to dominate every man around him in a social setting. The reason being is that a true alpha has such self-esteem that he doesn’t need the approval of others. He finds no value in winning from other men, because he already knows that he’s a winner.
To get the same state of mind you will have to learn that you don’t need the approval of others. We all like to be praised, but it’s not okay to need the approval of others to be happy. If you are this type of person (be honest with yourself), this won’t be easy. The good news is that it’s doable, but you’ll need to invest in yourself.
Are you a person that likes to show other people the good things you have done? If you are, try holding it back for a few days the next time you want to share something good about you. This can be a good exercise for getting used to not seeking approval of others. If you are a cool guy or you did something good, people will find out eventually anyway.
Write down who you want to be as a person and read it every day. Find opportunities in life to act like who you want to be. Remember, this has to come naturally eventually. You first have to love yourself. Loving yourself can be achieved by doing good things for others and by doing what you love in life. Be productive and make something of your life. And like I said, don’t try to seek approval. You knowing that you’re a good person should be enough.
When you finally can let go of what other people think of you the alpha within you will awaken. Emotionally you will become more stable and people will notice the change within you. Combined with the other traits above you will become an irresistible person for the people around you. Don’t try to be a fake alpha, just BE an alpha.